Relationships

I think that people have this relationship thing all messed up...if you are really happy you don't need anyone to make you happy....but the truth is finding that one that can add to it and turn a fairy tale into reality is really what should be desire...unless you're really not happy...i think that that's the reason why many relationships Crumble...cuz one is truly happy and one expects that person to make them happy...so their expectations go up the roof...and what keeps them together which is love begins to die...expectations aren't met...not satisfied and its because of the "other person"...sometimes things have to do with us personally...no one can truly fulfill every single expectation through ur whole relationship cuz we all fail at things...but the sadness or burden you carry can really affect the way you see that man or woman you are with...it is hard to say "he is going to fulfill all of my dreams and wants and needs...alot of times that's not realistic...but what is is finding someone that not only adds to your happiness but makes you feel like your the only one in the world who deserves everything..and will do anything to continue to make you happy...even with the little things...but the expectations that are too high will put a strain on both parties..and that's when it begins to crumble...im not saying you can't have the things you dream of but if the person you are with is the one that truly makes you happy...then he has gotten the first part on point...now continued happiness is wen he is willing to grow...but as his partner...it is wise to stick by his side...cuz one day you'll look back and be like "wow..its been a journey but it's been worth it" instead of..."he doing all this and because I left someone else is reaping the benefits"..that's a messed up situation...know what you want and if what you want makes you happy stay with that person...its a woman's job to support the man and be by his side its a man's job to take care of his woman and kids if applicable...all men have flaws...but the woman has to see those flaws and really help him conquer them....i do not condone abuse mental or physical insults or cheating...but besides that...the sky is the limit...as long as you're both on the same page...be blessed

The longevity of the Youth

This is crazy. Once upon a time kids could go to school happy to tell their parents of what happened...once upon a time medal detectors had no reason of being in almost every high school..and once upon a time we could walk down the street without worrying about getting shot at the corner..Not that that never existed...but there were options...now it's mandatory...when I was in first grad all I worried about was if I colored mt picture wrong or if I understand addition properly...bur now..little children and up growing up 10 times their age because they are subject to shootings in schools on the street..even churches...the day they had no protection as they walked down the street is when collectively we stopped praying..we stop relying on God..when we stopped thanking him for every breath..without teaching the kids love and allowing the media to raise them....life is not over...my heart goes out to all those victims...even babies who don't even know how to talk yet could be shot and killed..not being able to see their Time in school..the youths life expectancy is getting smaller and smaller...We really have to look at this situation and get back to the root and hold these children up in praying loving them with all we have showing them that we care..as a community and in our homes..this is an effort that must be made....because if we don't the "Love" of the streets will...be blessed.

Are you REAL or FAKE?

Man..its truly crazy how you can go to a church service knowing that you plan to never change..hear the Word and never be convicted...thinking bout plans of next weekend if it would be better than the night before...smh. Truth is being that way is being lukewarm...but having one leg in the world and you foot in Christ is a sin on its own



...Revelation 3:16 'So because you are lukewarm, and neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of My mouth.



You either choose one or the other..you can't serve 2 masters..You either love one and hate the other


Mather8:24 No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and wealth.


when you know the word you are accountable for what you know...so we know better..so as learned and taught for what we know in the Word..we should do better and be an example to those around us...that's the only way the world will know about the love of Christ