Relationships

I think that people have this relationship thing all messed up...if you are really happy you don't need anyone to make you happy....but the truth is finding that one that can add to it and turn a fairy tale into reality is really what should be desire...unless you're really not happy...i think that that's the reason why many relationships Crumble...cuz one is truly happy and one expects that person to make them happy...so their expectations go up the roof...and what keeps them together which is love begins to die...expectations aren't met...not satisfied and its because of the "other person"...sometimes things have to do with us personally...no one can truly fulfill every single expectation through ur whole relationship cuz we all fail at things...but the sadness or burden you carry can really affect the way you see that man or woman you are with...it is hard to say "he is going to fulfill all of my dreams and wants and needs...alot of times that's not realistic...but what is is finding someone that not only adds to your happiness but makes you feel like your the only one in the world who deserves everything..and will do anything to continue to make you happy...even with the little things...but the expectations that are too high will put a strain on both parties..and that's when it begins to crumble...im not saying you can't have the things you dream of but if the person you are with is the one that truly makes you happy...then he has gotten the first part on point...now continued happiness is wen he is willing to grow...but as his partner...it is wise to stick by his side...cuz one day you'll look back and be like "wow..its been a journey but it's been worth it" instead of..."he doing all this and because I left someone else is reaping the benefits"..that's a messed up situation...know what you want and if what you want makes you happy stay with that person...its a woman's job to support the man and be by his side its a man's job to take care of his woman and kids if applicable...all men have flaws...but the woman has to see those flaws and really help him conquer them....i do not condone abuse mental or physical insults or cheating...but besides that...the sky is the limit...as long as you're both on the same page...be blessed